What's mine is mine, and what's yours in mine!

We've been having some issues... well, lots of issues actually... about fighting over toys. What one has, the other one wants. There are so many toys to play with, but they just have to play with the same one. Patti is talking lots more than Cal is (but the boy understands more than he leads you to believe). I am trying to teach them about sharing and taking turns... hahaha (I can hear you mothers laughing)... teaching two 2-yr olds to share!! One word - exasperating! So, Patti just yells "SHARE!" when Cal starts to play with something she's playing with. Sometimes I have to break up some pretty serious fights (they have tried to hit, bite, pull hair, etc.). It's hard - no wait, impossible - to know who had what or what started the whole thing (unless I saw who had the toy first). So, normally I just cry along with them... no, really I do. My kids are really persistent - hard to believe huh? The other day, the screaming started "NO!" "SHARE!" "AHHHHH!"... a broom! Fighting over a broom! How in the world do you share a broom??? This time, instead of crying, I grabbed my camera and took pictures. Terrible, I know. A couple of pictures might be fuzzy... I was laughing pretty hard. Patti ended up winning the fight leaving Cal on the floor crying (she pushed him down). I'm really not that terrible... we had a talk about fighting and pushing and being "sweet"... the whole thing ended with hugs and kisses (forced on by mommy of course). I think Patti felt bad about the whole thing because she handed Cal the broom afterwards.